“From experience he knew that some thoughts left him sad while others made him happy, and little by little he came to perceive the different spirits that were moving him.” — St. Ignatius of Loyola, Autobiography, no. 8
Yesterday, Australia introduced a proposal called “My Feed, My Way.”1 The idea is straightforward: social media companies would need to let users choose whether an algorithm decides what shows up in their feeds. People could also pick to see posts only from accounts they have chosen to follow. Prime Minister Anthony Albanese put it like this: “We have an opportunity to shape technology for the better, rather than let it shape us.”
The pickle, of course, is that technology is already shaping us. Your feed doesn’t just show you the world. It watches how you react. Each time you pause on a video, click a headline, watch something again, comment in anger, look at a photo, or share something with a friend, the system learns more about what grabs your attention. Then it gives you more of that.
The algorithm doesn’t care if what grabs your attention makes you wiser or more afraid, kinder or more resentful, connected or lonely. It’s just built to keep you engaged.
Five hundred years ago, Ignatius of Loyola became curious about what moves us, but for a different reason. While he was recovering from a serious battle injury, he started to pay close attention to his own inner life. He saw that some fantasies gave him pleasure at first but later left him feeling restless and empty. Other thoughts affected him differently. They opened something inside him and left him with more peace, generosity, and a greater desire for life.2
Ignatius became fascinated by this difference. Over time, his observations turned into what we now call the discernment of spirits. This is the practice of noticing what’s happening inside us and asking where those feelings are leading. He described consolation as experiences that draw us toward more faith, hope, love, and life. Desolation, on the other hand, pulls us toward isolation, agitation, hopelessness, and feeling smaller.
It was never just about feeling good or bad. Grief can help us love more deeply. Anger can make us notice injustice. Something that feels good can make us more self-absorbed. Something hard can help us become braver. Ignatius cared about where these feelings were leading. He wanted to understand what a certain feeling or impulse was doing to someone, and who they were becoming by following it.
I wonder what Ignatius would think about our phones today. Now, we spend hours in spaces made to stir up our feelings. A headline makes us angry. A photo makes us envious. A video scares us. A post confirms what we already thought about people we don’t like. Another gives us the quick thrill of being agreed with. Before one feeling even settles, we’re already scrolling to the next. I do this too.
Lately, I’m more interested in what happens if, instead of just asking if something online is interesting or true, I ask a more personal question: What is this doing to me?
After twenty minutes of news, am I more ready to engage with the world, or just more afraid of it? After scrolling through social media, do I feel closer to others or oddly less than them? Is my anger helping me notice something important, or is it just being triggered again and again because it keeps me clicking?
These are questions an algorithm can’t answer for us. They require us to pay attention and reflect. That’s why I don’t think we should just give up on technology. Algorithms have helped me discover writers, ideas, music, news, humor, and people I’m glad to have found. Technology can make our world bigger. But anything that can shape our attention so strongly deserves our attention in return.
Australia’s proposal might give people more control over what shows up on their screens. That seems worth looking into. But no law can do the deeper work for us. We still have to learn to notice what is shaping our inner lives.
Ignatius believed that real freedom needs this kind of attention. Not every desire should be satisfied. Not every fear should be trusted. Not every anger should be fed. Not every impulse inside us should decide what we do next. The algorithm is getting very good at figuring out what moves you. You might want to know that too.
So next time you put down your phone, pause for a moment before picking up something else. Notice what’s left inside you. Pay attention to your body, your mood, and how connected you feel to the world and to others.
Then ask: What is this doing to me?
Your answer might help you decide if you want to keep giving it your attention.
We are in this together,
Cameron
Reflection Questions
What kinds of content reliably capture your attention, and what might that reveal about your fears, desires, wounds, or longings?
When you leave social media or the news, what remains in you? Do you feel more connected and capable of engaging the world, or more anxious, angry, envious, or powerless?
What deserves more of your attention than it is currently receiving?
A Prayer for the Day
A Prayer For the Wisdom to Notice
Holy Mystery, Our attention is scattered across a thousand invitations. Gather us back. Beneath the noise, help us hear what is moving within us. Beneath the urgency, help us recognize what is true. Teach us the difference between the voice that opens the heart and the voice that closes it, between anger that awakens courage and anger that consumes, between sorrow that deepens love and despair that convinces us to disappear. When the world pulls at us, return us to ourselves. Return us to the faces we love, to the ground beneath our feet, to the suffering that needs our hands, to beauty we have been moving too quickly to see. May our attention become devotion. May our devotion become love. And may our love make us free. Amen.
Spiritual Practice: The Ignatian Scroll
Today, don’t change how you use technology. Instead, pay attention to its aftertaste.
Three times today, when you finish scrolling social media, reading the news, or watching videos, put your phone down and wait thirty seconds before doing anything else.
Then complete this sentence: “After spending time there, I feel…”
Don’t analyze the answer or try to make it spiritually impressive. Restless counts. Amused counts. Angry, energized, connected, jealous, informed, frightened, inspired, numb—all of it counts.
At the end of the day, look at your three answers.
Ignatius believed that freedom begins when we become conscious of what is moving us. So don’t immediately redesign your digital life. Just ask yourself: Do I want more of what this is cultivating in me?
Your feed is studying you all day long. For today, study it back.
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Ignatius of Loyola, The Autobiography of St. Ignatius Loyola, no. 8.
Thanks for an amazing insightful article - followed by an amazing amount of sharing some great work going on. I feel detached like I haven’t found my people, and here you are sharing what like minded folk are doing, and leading me to them. I can tell you that I am grateful Substack led me to you, that “feed” is a positive one in my life. Stay off Facebook and on Substack might be my message for today 🙏. Keep up the great work.