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Carol Stanton (FL)'s avatar

We have befriended a homeless man in our neighborhood. He is very proud, extremely private, intelligent and independent. He refuses any institutionalized, " on the grid" social help- calls it a "hand out"--While we have on occasion helped him with medical needs and to find simple shelter ( difficult with the high and higher rentals even for just a room in a house- he gets minimal SS but anytime we have helped in an emergency with cash he quickly pays us back. Recent SS changes left him without funds for 10 days. We found info that every SS office has a " homeless liason"-- that cut through the bureaucracy!)

I realized today after spending time with him at his regular morning coffee place, that our greatest gift to him is just visiting with him, having great conversation and listening to his past stories and present hopes ( he is an artist). We enjoy our talks. He is very intelligent and funny.

We are not his only friends in our area and I see how important friendship is for him. He gets his share of " looks" and avoidance. Having friends helps him feel human and, I think, others seeing him with friends changes the quick perception and judgement others might have of him. Though he will not stay with us ( much too private for that) he trusted us with a small box of belongings and art supplies for safe keeping in our garage. His life belongings. We are privileged to know him. He is 72.

Julie DeMaeyer's avatar

You wrote: “…sometimes, a voice cuts through and reminds us that we can still see things differently. Gandhi’s words do that.” Your voice dear Cameron, also reminds us/me that there is a choice. How we interpret our reality matters. I feel entirely done with left and right. With othering those who don’t agree with my view. My prayer has become only “Let me see clearly, so I can act wisely for the highest good of all life.” Oh…and “Thank you!” 🥰🙏

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