“Our dead are never dead to us until we have forgotten them.” — George Eliot
Tonight is Halloween. Sunday is All Souls Day. In traditions around the world—from Samhain to Día de los Muertos—this is the time of year when the veil between the living and the dead is said to be at its thinnest. In ancient Celtic spirituality, it was believed that ancestors could walk among us during this liminal moment, offering guidance, warnings, blessings. In Christian practice, All Souls Day became a time to pray for those who have died. In many Indigenous cultures, this is a season of honoring the wisdom of the elders, the spirits of the land, and the continuity of life beyond death.
Perhaps this year, we feel that veil more tangibly than ever.
In this moment of political upheaval, climate grief, and spiritual longing, we are aware of the presence of those who came before: those who endured hardship, fought for justice, planted trees they would never see bloom. We may also feel the quiet company of those we’ve loved and lost. Their memories rise like mist, asking us to remember what matters most.
It’s tempting, in times like these, to believe we are alone. But we are not. We are surrounded by a great cloud of witnesses: people who carried the flame before us, and people whose names we’ll never know who dreamed of a more loving, just world. The veil is thin, not just between life and death, but between despair and courage, between what is and what could be.
So tonight, light a candle. Whisper the names of those you carry in your heart. Let the memory of their courage rekindle your own.
They survived what they did so that we could rise now. They are with us. We are not alone.
We are in this together,
Cameron
Reflection Questions
Who are the ancestors—spiritual or familial—you feel closest to in this season?
What qualities or values did they embody that you want to carry forward?
In what ways can you be a good ancestor to future generations, starting now?
A Prayer for the Day
A Prayer for the Ancestors
Spirit of Love, Giver of Breath and Time, Today, we remember those who came before. We remember the dreamers and the doubters, The healers and the heretics, The quiet faithful and the brave troublemakers. We call their names, aloud or in silence— May their memory be a blessing. May we carry their courage like flame in our bones. May we listen when the veil grows thin. May we walk with wisdom, Rooted in love, Ready to build what they could only imagine. Amen.
Spiritual Practice
Set a Table for the Departed
Tonight, set a small space at your dinner table or altar with a photo, candle, or item that belonged to someone you’ve loved and lost. Invite their memory to join you. Offer them your thanks, your questions, or simply your presence. Let this be a ritual of connection—not to the past, but to the lineage of love that carries you forward.
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That was beautiful way to remember tonight. Thanks for sending that!
“We are surrounded”
by the spirit(s) of what’s love.
Both sides of the veil(s).