Proximity and Compassion
A Meditation by Rev. Cameron Trimble
“Speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves, for the rights of all who are destitute. Speak up and judge fairly; defend the rights of the poor and needy.” (Proverbs 31:8-9)
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As the new US administration comes into focus, it’s now clear that multi-millionaire and multi-billionaire men (not to mention FOX News entertainment personalities with few qualifications for governing) will hold the positions of power. The leaders who wield enormous global influence are profoundly disconnected from the realities of 99% of the rest of the world, far removed from the struggles of the oppressed, vulnerable and the poor.
One hopes leadership decisions are based on care and concern for those being led. I am skeptical that we will see this in the new administration. It is tempting to look at this team and wonder, How can they lead with understanding and compassion when they have never seen or felt the pain of those they are meant to serve? Privilege is blinding.
Compassion is born from proximity. To truly care for others, we must live near their experiences—not just geographically, but emotionally and spiritually. Jesus didn’t stay removed from human suffering; he lived among the people, walking alongside the poor, the sick, and the outcast. He reminds us of the sacred power of proximity, showing that to love others well, we must see them, hear them, and stand with them in their struggles.
The Dalai Lama teaches, "We can reject everything else: religion, ideology, all received wisdom. But we cannot escape the necessity of love and compassion." Compassion calls us to create a society that works for everyone. Compassion is justice.
It’s not enough to care from a distance, which financial privilege can give you. The prophet Isaiah speaks of a God who calls us to “loose the chains of injustice and untie the cords of the yoke” (Isaiah 58:6). How can we do that if we never get close enough to see the yoke or hear the chains? Proximity invites us to step out of our comfort zones and into places where the needs are real and urgent. It calls us to listen deeply, to share in the joys and burdens of others, and to remember that their humanity is tied to our own.
In the face of a US government wildly out of touch with the realities of everyday people, we are reminded of our responsibility to live differently. We are called to embody compassion and justice. This means showing up in the spaces where suffering exists—not to fix or save, but to listen, to stand in solidarity, and to extend care that is grounded in humility and love.
Today, reflect on the ways you can draw closer to the pain and needs of others. Where can you show up? Who needs your voice, your presence, your support? The work of compassion and justice doesn’t depend on title or wealth—it depends on proximity, on a heart willing to draw near.
We are in this together,
Cameron
Reflection Questions
How can I step closer to the pain and needs of others, rather than staying at a comfortable distance?
What prevents me from living in proximity to those who are struggling, and how might I overcome that?
A Prayer for the Day
A Prayer for Proximity and Compassion
God of Justice,
You draw near to the brokenhearted, walking alongside those in need.
Help me to do the same. Open my heart to the struggles of others,
And give me the courage to step into places of pain with compassion.
Teach me to see, to listen, and to act in ways that reflect Your love.
May my life be a reflection of Your care for the poor, the vulnerable, and the unseen.
Amen.
Spiritual Practice
Walking in Proximity
Today, take one intentional step to move closer to the realities of those in need. This might mean volunteering at a local shelter, visiting a neighbor who is struggling, or having a heartfelt conversation with someone whose experiences are different from your own.
As you engage, practice deep listening. Don’t rush to fix or offer advice—simply be present. Let their stories touch your heart and remind you of our shared humanity. At the end of the day, reflect on how proximity has shifted your perspective or deepened your compassion. Trust that by drawing near, you are part of healing and bringing justice in the world.
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